[Tony's focus shifts from the party planning to that first statement and his eyes narrow.]

Can you blame him? He's been a soldier slave for the last several months imprisoned on a train with all kinds of mind tricks. When he got here he's told he becomes someone so unforgivable that losing his cool means his best friends question whether he'll 'have their back'. He had 'train versions' of you all, which you've made really clear you hate even though, he loved them. They were his brothers and cared for him like you would've had you been there.

Have you even asked him what he's been through once?