carbungle | IC Contact

[ok ok ok hang on.]

lol theres no universal rule as far as i know

dating is just hanging out and doing stuff you like with someone else, same as being friends, except that u have some romantic intentions behind it

so it would help if u established like actual hobbies & things u like to do, and ask the person ur dating what they like too

[rip]

well, that's rather the problem

developing an idea of things we enjoy is something we're both still working on

[who the heck]

isnt that kind of the solution instead of the problem

have dates where u try new things and look 4 stuff you like to do

well

i suppose that is the logical route, isn't it

i've never had to think about this before, usually aera merely wrenched my arm out of the socket pulling me between solheim ruins

[not that he complained, mind you]

its not like im any kind of expert here, half the time thats how dates w/ pyra go

the pulling not the ruins

can i ask who ur gonna date, if thatll help

you'll not tell anyone about this conversation if i answer that, right?

dude

[c'mon.]

i know, i know, i'm

nervous. i don't want to misstep and upset her, and i don't even know if she holds the same interest. i don't even know if i do, i'm not sure if this is right or what to do about anything

it's honerva

oh

yeah that checks out

u both are adults tho, and u have been around long enough that this isnt like ur first time w/ this. so talk 2 her and see if shed be into it. i dont know her that well but she seems nice?? prompto likes her a lot & his taste is impeccable

[/humblebrag]

i don't know

what if i'm not worth it, or i do something wrong and it all ends horribly, or i just end up hurting her by mistake?

idk what you expect me to say to that besides "dumbass" so

dumbass

hey u saw someone was offering counselling the other day right

u should go and tell them u have garbage self esteem

painfully harsh, but regrettably accurate

u dont come to me for soft cuddles thats what a girlfriend is for

if u start a relationship and are always like ohhhh i dont deserve this u will make it sound like u dont believe she likes u

i know that, i'm doing the best i can to convince myself otherwise

it's difficult and i'm still worried

i mean youre talking 2 someone whos dating his facetwin grandpa's ex

if u think i didnt have some issues 2 work through when this whole thing started ur crazy

all u can do is try, u will regret it if u dont bother w/ it bc ur scared 2 fail